My two don't like it either, but with patience it's gotten better.
Everyday, when Maggie is next to you and relaxed, pick up a foot and massage it gently. When she tries to pull away, don't let go; try to quiet her struggles with a calm but firm voice; when she relaxes, reward her with your voice and an ear rub. Do this dominance exercise over and over and over. Make her understand that you will do what you want, and she can trust you not to hurt her. Use the same technique when you're clipping nails....reward the behavior you want. It'll take work, but she's a smart girl, so she'll get it.
When my Maggie sees the nail clippers, she still tries to run away, but with time....the process has gotten easier; she has finally figured out that the nails will be clipped, and her cooperation is expected (within reason of course; she still hates it, but I have more control now because she responds to my voice)
PM me if you have any questions.....
(P.s. I'm too cheap to pay for nails and anal glands, so both those jobs have to be done at home :hi: )