Well it seems patience is a virtue.
As stated before, I did not have patience.
However; Lucky has taught Me patience. (New name is Charlie
I was filled with so much worry regarding My 14 year old baby(cat)and Charlie aka Lucky (in my other posts).
They have worked it out atleast 95 percent, Baby has decided enough is enough. He is not living in a room no longer, Charlie (aka lucky) will just have to deal with Me being in the house too (Baby says).
Soooo along comes Baby ...trying it the real cats way /forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif putting Charlie in his place a few times.
Ohhh Charlie was insulted by this. He looked up at me for understanding.
I finally said deal with it!
as I was not going to rescue what was going on anymore.
They were on their own to work out whatever they had to work out.
I am happy to report that BABY is roaming the house again
Charlie from time to time tries to do his hunting crap again..., But Baby is standing His ground.
It seems to be working.
I'm making sure to reasure both of them, that mumma loves them both as I pet and love both of them at the same time, and when Charlie starts the beginning of his crap again,
I don't give neither of them petting I IGNORE, even though Baby has done nothing, I ignore him too, (Only to show Charlie I am not favouring anyone)
You'll never know how My Charlie is starting to heal My being.(he and baby are starting to work it out)
I never cry daily over My past Dog, I'm not depressed no longer from My passing of My Su.
The day I did Shed a tear, was 3 days ago. when it snowed, it was My Su's favourite season.
Not crying too long, I looked at My Charlie on our snow walk and said to Myself (be strong little man needs you to take care of him all will be ok)
Then one last teardrop fell.
I wiped My eyes and carried on our walk with in actual smile
Knowing that He and Baby will One day be the bestest of friends. I actualy embrase all the new things Charlie is teaching me, and YUP PATIENCE WAS ONE OF THEM.
PS....I did not want to make another new posting, just incase there is a topic on it already.
Do your Beagle drag the hind legs and walk? Charlie tends to do this not all the time, but sometimes. (in the house only) like stretching yoga cat pose and walks....it is kinda funny.
BUT!
It reminds me of My Su when she became paralyzed.
However Charlie tends to do it because he likes it.
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Picts of Baby & Charlie, alowing Charlie to smell Baby safely, reasurring I love them both....
Charlie and his friends on a walk....
Charlie, enjoying himself on his back....
Charlie wondering where Baby is *looking in the window. *no he's not in the cathouse Charlie* laughs...
Pict of My Su, who passed away at the age of 15years old Sept 25/07
As stated before, I did not have patience.
However; Lucky has taught Me patience. (New name is Charlie
I was filled with so much worry regarding My 14 year old baby(cat)and Charlie aka Lucky (in my other posts).
They have worked it out atleast 95 percent, Baby has decided enough is enough. He is not living in a room no longer, Charlie (aka lucky) will just have to deal with Me being in the house too (Baby says).
Soooo along comes Baby ...trying it the real cats way /forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif putting Charlie in his place a few times.
Ohhh Charlie was insulted by this. He looked up at me for understanding.
I finally said deal with it!
as I was not going to rescue what was going on anymore.
They were on their own to work out whatever they had to work out.
I am happy to report that BABY is roaming the house again
Charlie from time to time tries to do his hunting crap again..., But Baby is standing His ground.
It seems to be working.
I'm making sure to reasure both of them, that mumma loves them both as I pet and love both of them at the same time, and when Charlie starts the beginning of his crap again,
I don't give neither of them petting I IGNORE, even though Baby has done nothing, I ignore him too, (Only to show Charlie I am not favouring anyone)
You'll never know how My Charlie is starting to heal My being.(he and baby are starting to work it out)
I never cry daily over My past Dog, I'm not depressed no longer from My passing of My Su.
The day I did Shed a tear, was 3 days ago. when it snowed, it was My Su's favourite season.
Not crying too long, I looked at My Charlie on our snow walk and said to Myself (be strong little man needs you to take care of him all will be ok)
Then one last teardrop fell.
I wiped My eyes and carried on our walk with in actual smile
Knowing that He and Baby will One day be the bestest of friends. I actualy embrase all the new things Charlie is teaching me, and YUP PATIENCE WAS ONE OF THEM.
PS....I did not want to make another new posting, just incase there is a topic on it already.
Do your Beagle drag the hind legs and walk? Charlie tends to do this not all the time, but sometimes. (in the house only) like stretching yoga cat pose and walks....it is kinda funny.
BUT!
It reminds me of My Su when she became paralyzed.
However Charlie tends to do it because he likes it.
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Picts of Baby & Charlie, alowing Charlie to smell Baby safely, reasurring I love them both....
Charlie and his friends on a walk....
Charlie, enjoying himself on his back....
Charlie wondering where Baby is *looking in the window. *no he's not in the cathouse Charlie* laughs...
Pict of My Su, who passed away at the age of 15years old Sept 25/07